WHY EVERYONE WANTS TO BE ASSOCIATED WITH PEOPLE THAT HAVE MADE IT.

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WHY EVERYONE WANTS TO BE ASSOCIATED WITH PEOPLE THAT HAVE MADE IT.

True or false?

We are all guilty of this. Nobody, I repeat, nobody wants to be associated with a liability. You can say “this life has no balance” all you want, but the truth still remains.

The funny thing about truth is, “no matter how we try to sugar coat it, it comes back staring at our faces". Learning a new language is very tedious, but you see, success is a language everyone wants to speak. Directly or indirectly. We all want to know at least one person who speaks this language fluently.

Because of what? Why? What’s the reason?

While you take a moment to think about your “WHY”, let me drop this bombshell. “We want to feel among," “we want to feel relevant." My African brothers said it better, “ follow who know road". This is the reason why we want to be associated with successful people.

Who doesn’t like the scent of success? Oh, you didn’t know success has a scent? Now you know.

Before you start saying your “WHY” is to learn from them or get mentored by them, wait first! Remember what I said earlier about sugarcoating the truth? Yeah, right.

Nobody wants to be around people without value. In fact, when it comes to matters like this, our selfishness comes out in broad daylight. We all want something; we all want to gain something, one way or the other.

So evaluate yourself well, the fact that you long to be around certain people is because of what you stand to gain (aka your selfish reasons). My dear, you’re selfish. Not just you, everyone is. So accept it with your full chest.

It’s not a bad thing to have those desires as long as they are intended towards growth and positivity.

Hear me clearly, “Be Selfish.” Be this kind of selfish if that’s what it takes to be successful. Find a way to get close to that successful person you admire and aspire to be like.

Build that relationship that can add to your growth level,make that connection, send that DM. While doing all of this, make sure you have something to offer. Don’t come to the dinner table with empty hands..

Don’t be a leeche.

You too can provide value. You too can be successful. The difference between successful people and unsuccessful people is “Their Habits".

Allow it to sink in!
Being determined and hardworking isn’t enough. Both results are the product of habits.

What are Habits?

These are set of practices you carryout repeatedly.

Now the real question is, what are your habits?

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Was this insightful? Give me 50 claps😄. I’d like to know what your “WHY" is and also what your Habits are. I can’t Wait to read them in the comment section.

I am rooting for you always!